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The podcast says "there is no reason to believe that people mourned the loss of the youngest among them any less than we do now". But ever since I read Juliet Schor's The Overworked American, my understanding has been that parental love for small children has been common for only a few hundred years, which she presented as the conventional wisdom among scholars.

I've always been struck by the description given by Montaigne, the 16th century essayist, of the death of his daughters. He says he felt "sadness, but not heartbreak, at the loss of two or three of mine still in the care of wet-nurses". More notable than his lack of heartbreak, is that he doesn't know the exact number!

This very episode says nomadic foragers usually space their children five years apart. This suggests routine infanticide, no?

Finally, a few minutes of googling tells me that child graves are rare in the archeological record, which at least hints that their parents didn't mourn them all that much.

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